I
was reading the chronicle newspaper sometime last week and the front page story
that caught my eyes had a big headline “herdsmanimpregnates boss’s daughter; Grade 7 pupil drops out of school; BUT JUDGE LETS HIM GO FREE.” Before even reading the story l was like “what?” a ruthless man
impregnates a kid and the judge lets him go free??? Again earlier this week another
front page story appeared in the same newspaper which was a follow up on last
week’s story, with headline “5-monthspregnant aged 13; BULILIMA ABUSE GIRL TELLS ALL; ‘I didn’t know what l wasdoing’’. The two stories just evoked something in me and l couldn’t resist
writing about it.
Just
a little background on the issue, what the newspaper reported to have happened
is Conscience Nleya impregnated a 13year old child and was arraigned before a
magistrate for his offence. He told the magistrate that he was in love with the
kid and they had plans of getting married, building a family together. The
magistrate decided that a wholly suspended prison term of 12 months on “good
behavior” and 315 hours of community service was the suitable sentence for this
man.
Honestly
speaking l do not see any justice in this, how can a man who does so much evil
to a child and literary destroy her future be left to move around the community
freely? The magistrate even said it that the uneducated man had destroyed the
innocent child’s future yet he gets community service for a sentence.
Children
need protection against such heartless men and when an incident like this
happens, a harsh message needs to be sent to scare even those who might
consider doing the same crime in future. So what are we saying as a society?
Are we saying that men can just have 315hours of community service for having
sex with a minor? Why is the charge even ‘having sexual intercourse with a
minor’ when it did not end there but he impregnated her? Where is justice?
Where is protection of girl child?
Poor
child her silence was bought with sweets which show just how innocent and
childish she was. On the second story the child was telling her side of the
story. She said she did not know what she was doing when she had sex with this
ruthless man. She even went on to say she was not sure what her aunty meant
when she said she might be pregnant. God! This world is full of evil that
children needed serious protection against.
I
wonder how many kids get raped like this each and every passing day. If this
girl hadn’t been pregnant, no one was going to know that she was being abused. Imagine
how many girls face this in every corner of the country yet it goes unreported.
Innocent children, innocent girls with bright future ahead of them yet someone
see a wife in them.
The 13-year-old's father said that no form of punishment can restore his daughter's innocence. It is very true even if the man is sent to prison for 30years, the child's innocence is gone, gone for good and she is left with a child who will alway be a continuous reminder of what she went through. This is so sad
Let
us stand up as a community and protect kids, something needs to be done. Parents
be friendly with your children so that they will be free enough to tell you
when they face this kind of abuse. Children need to be educated at school and
at home about sexual abuse and what they should do when people abuse them. These
kids are the future, our tomorrow leaders. Let us protect them and protect our
tomorrow.
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